Researchers who are looking for the underlying social causes of divorce is nothing new, but their focus seems to be shifting away from childhood and family factors and toward technology and social media. Although there is no overarching reason behind every divorce in the United States, these studies can help people understand their relationship with technology and adjust their habits accordingly.
TIME reports that a recent study surveyed Twitter users to determine how the use of social media affects relationships. Many participants reported that they have fought with their significant others about the amount of time they spend using the site. Furthermore, people who use Twitter more often report having more relationship problems in general.
There are several possible reasons for these responses. In general, any solitary activity that takes time away from a marriage is likely to cause problems, especially if one spouse performs the activity excessively. Other explanations are more concerned with the distinction that people make between their online lives and their real ones.
Another Study Suggests Men Are More Likely To Share Feelings Online Than With Their Partners
We tend to build an online persona that is different from our general identity. Even if our names are attached to the online identity, there is a feeling of anonymity that gives us freedom to express ourselves in ways we wouldn’t normally in real life.
Another article that appeared in TIME cites a study that claims a husband is more likely to share personal thoughts online than he is to discuss those thoughts with his spouse. This trend could harm relationships if one spouse is less social-media savvy than the other.
If you are planning a divorce, whatever your reasons, you’ll want to find a Queens family attorney to help you protect your rights and represent your best interests in court.
At Elliot Green Law Offices, we specialize in family law, handling divorce issues that range from alimony and child support to property division and annulments. If spousal abuse plays a role in the divorce, we can help you file for divorce in an integrated domestic-violence court.
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It’s Not The First Time It’s Been Suggested That Technology Leads To Divorce
Most people would consider it wrong to privately flirt with an attractive stranger at lunch each day. However, these lines become blurred when technology is introduced. The Huffington Post discussed the boundaries of texting and what should be considered inappropriate.
Healthy boundaries are key for any marriage, but it is difficult to draw boundaries online. Without a tone of voice or body language, it can be difficult to decide what is flirtatious and what isn’t, which often leads to relationship problems. The article suggests that any texts you wouldn’t want your spouse to read shouldn’t be sent.
Whether or not technology contributed to your decision to divorce, the practical and legal realities of a split necessitate hiring an attorney. At Elliot Green Law Offices, we are committed to helping our clients leave their divorces with everything that they need to start fresh. To schedule a free consultation with an attorney from our office, call us today at 718-260-8668.
