Divorce is seldom the first choice for married couples going through difficulties. In fact, research by the American Psychological Association suggests that divorce is a last resort after couples explore other avenues. Despite this, divorce is a reality in many situations and is often the best possible solution to a difficult or unfulfilling marriage.
Myths and confusion involving divorce are still common, and there are a number of misconceptions and areas that even those who are about to go through the process find ambiguous. If you are considering a divorce, speak to a qualified family lawyer in Queens. At the Law Office of Elliot Green, we have many years of family law experience, and we provide client-centered representation throughout Queens and Staten Island. For a free 30-minute consultation, call us at 718-260-8668.
1. Divorce Is Always Very Expensive
Headline-grabbing divorces make the press because they are dramatic and high profile, which means that it is a common misconception that trends for these extreme cases filter down to regular divorces. As Woman’s Day reports, divorce does not have to be an expensive and protracted event. Provided both parties are in agreement regarding the situation and have agreed to end the marriage amicably, there is no reason why the divorce should be excessively expensive. A qualified and experienced divorce attorney can help keep the process congenial. More often than not, costs associated with divorce are significantly lower than many expect.
2. All Wives Receive Payments Following Divorce
Another common misconception fuelled by mainstream media is that all wives who divorce their husbands receive some form of compensation, or alimony. Alimony is common and is usually paid in the form of a lump sum or monthly payments. It is not, however, part of all divorces, and it does not necessarily go from husband to wife. Alimony is only part of marriages in which one spouse was financially dependent on the other. Awarding alimony may involve extensive research into each individual’s financial situation and income history.
3. Cohabiting Before Marriage Decreases Chance of Divorce
As Woman’s Day suggests, it seems logical that living together before marriage will ease the process and ensure that there is less chance of getting divorced. Research suggests that the true reason behind your decision to move in together is what will determine the success of the marriage. If the move was out of necessity, there is a better chance that the marriage will not work out than if the initial reason behind moving in together was simply through a desire to live in the same house. Experts suggest that moving in together is a great way to test the waters, but they express caution to those who expect it will resolve already existing problems.
No one plans to get divorced, but in many situations, it is simply the right decision. If you are facing a divorce problem and would like to consult a Family lawyer, call the Law Office of Elliot Green today at 718-260-8668.
